IF A RELATIONSHIP CAN'T MOVE FORWARD IT WITHERS

Relationships are always tough, and things don't get any easier as time goes on.  You don't get any better at it just because you've been on the job longer.  With most long-term relationships, there are going to be periods of ennui or boredom along the way.  There are going to be fun times, rough times, fights or confrontations, laughter, tears, changes both good and bad, ups and downs, ins and outs and much more that will impact your relationship in a positive way or negative way.  We all love the feeling of falling in love, the freshness of a new relationship growing and maturing, the excitement, the uncertainty, the jitters, the fun that is involved with falling in love.  However, there comes a point in all relationships where we start wondering about things.  "Is this is?"  "Now what?" "When did our love change and become routine, mundane, and boring?"  We start to miss the excitement, the thrill and we get stuck on replay or pause settling into routine and not moving.  Our relationship starts to wither into routine with us slowly dying and becoming dysfunctional.  We start seeking and looking for that old feeling again whether it is with our partner or else where.  We start loosing communication, interest, and we start to become dysfunctional and the relationship begins to wither.  If the relationship can't move forward it withers.  When we get stuck on pause the relationship becomes dysfunctional and we become unhappy.  This is unhealthy for everyone involved.  All of us know exactly what I am talking about. I have created a listed to help keep your  relationship moving forward.  To view the rest go to http://www.amandathinksthis.blogspot.com